What Great Leadership Looks Like Today: The 10 Essential Qualities

What Great Leadership Looks Like Today: The 10 Essential Qualities

Leadership is not a fixed state.

It is a practice, one that demands as much of our inner world as our outward actions. In today’s turbulent and unpredictable environment, the qualities of a great leader are less about technical know-how and more about who you are, how you show up, and how you help others find their own footing.

Having worked with leaders at every level, through crises, restructures, missed opportunities, and those rare days when everything comes together - what stands out isn’t charisma or heroics. It’s the everyday choices. It’s the willingness to be seen, to listen, to change course, and sometimes, to get out of the way.

Below, I offer my own take on what makes a truly great leader. These are not boxes to be ticked, nor are they reserved for those with certain titles or a corner office. They are qualities to be practised, grown, and refined over a lifetime.

A Personal Reflection: When Leadership is Tested

A while ago, I found myself facing disappointment on two fronts in the space of a week. At the start of the weekmy daughter felt the sting of being rejected for a coveted role at school; by Friday, my team and I narrowly missed out on a significant tender opportunity. I won’t pretend - both hurt.

My daughter’s reaction was beautifully raw and honest. She had a good cry, spent the evening wallowing, and confessed her biggest fear: what would other people think? By morning, she had gathered herself and told me, quite matter-of-factly, “Everyone gets more no’s than yes’s in life,” before setting her sights on the next challenge.

As for myself, I found comfort in sharing my feelings with a trusted colleague, took a walk to clear my mind, and, after a moment of throwing my own “teddies out of the pram,” shifted into a mindset of learning and growth. Reflecting on these moments, I realised they encapsulate so many of the qualities I see in great leadership: resilience, vulnerability, self-awareness, and the willingness to move forward, not in denial of disappointment, but because of what we’ve learned from it.

The 10 Qualities of a Great Leader

Self-Awareness & Self-Belief

The best leaders know themselves. They are honest about their strengths and weaknesses and welcome feedback as an opportunity for growth rather than a threat to their authority. True self-belief is not loud or showy; it’s grounded in reflection and the quiet confidence to roll up your sleeves in a crisis, without ego taking over. In moments of uncertainty, this kind of self-awareness allows leaders to step in when needed, and to step back when others are better placed to act.

Vulnerability

It takes strength to be vulnerable, especially in a world that often prizes certainty and bravado. Great leaders share their challenges and mistakes openly, making it safe for others to do the same. Vulnerability is not about oversharing or seeking sympathy; it’s about demonstrating that you’re human, and in doing so, building trust across your team.

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Situational Leadership

There is no one-size-fits-all approach. The ability to adapt - to flex your style according to the needs of your people and the moment - is the hallmark of effective leadership. Sometimes it means guiding with a steady hand; sometimes it means coaching, supporting, or simply getting out of the way. Great leaders read the room and adjust their approach, recognising that what got them here may not get them there.

Empathy

True empathy goes beyond listening to the words. It’s about seeking to understand others’ perspectives and leading with compassion as well as logic. The best leaders never assume that their title equates to rightness. They foster a culture where everyone’s voice matters and where decisions are made with people, not just processes, in mind.

Curiosity & Learning Mindset

If you want to grow a resilient, innovative organisation, curiosity is non-negotiable. Leaders who ask questions, embrace change, and encourage experimentation are the ones who adapt and thrive. Crucially, they reject the notion of failure as a dead end. Instead, mistakes become lessons, an ongoing opportunity to learn and improve.

Strategic & Critical Thinking

Setting a clear direction is only half the battle. Great leaders translate vision into action by thinking ahead, weighing options, and navigating complexity with sound judgement. They bring clarity to the chaos, help people understand the “why” behind the work, and make decisions that are responsive, not simply reactive.

Resilience

Setbacks are inevitable, but how you respond makes all the difference. Resilient leaders face adversity with perspective and determination. They model calm when others are rattled and demonstrate that setbacks are not endpoints, but opportunities to regroup and try again.

Empowerment

Empowering others isn’t just about delegation. It’s about creating the space and safety for people to do their best work, providing clarity of objectives, and then trusting them to deliver. Great leaders celebrate entrepreneurial spirit and encourage ownership at every level, knowing that people thrive when given both freedom and responsibility.

Moral Courage

Standing by your values is never easy, particularly when the stakes are high. Leaders with moral courage speak up for what’s right, not just what’s easy. They listen deeply to what matters to others and are willing to take a stand, even when it means facing discomfort or opposition. In doing so, they set the tone for integrity throughout the organisation.

Collaboration & Inclusion

No leader succeeds alone. The strongest organisations are built on a foundation of collaboration and inclusion. Great leaders foster belonging, value diverse perspectives, and act as coaches and mentors to build cohesive teams. When everyone is encouraged to contribute, the collective intelligence of the organisation rises.

In summary:

Great leadership is not about having all the answers, or always getting it right. It’s about staying open, resilient, and focused on the growth of yourself, your people, and your purpose. These qualities are not innate gifts; they are choices, made moment by moment, that over time shape the culture and direction of your team.

As the world shifts, so must we. The best leaders are those who never stop learning, who can balance clarity with curiosity, and who lead with both courage and care. If you’re working on even half of these qualities, you’re on the right track.

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Rebuilding Trust When It’s Been Broken

I have always preferred to assume trust. My starting point is to believe that people mean well, that they intend to honour their word, and that values are lived, not simply laminated on a wall.

Yet every so often, life delivers a lesson. Despite our best hopes, trust does break. Sometimes it’s a single jarring moment, a promise unkept, a silence where there should have been accountability, or a shift from objectivity to personal attack. Other times, it’s a gradual erosion. I once found myself in the middle of this process: some people I trusted stopped doing the things I had quietly assumed of them. Promises faded. Ownership vanished. Difficult conversations were dodged. Communication stalled. It forced me to reconsider not only what trust means, but also what, if anything, can be done to rebuild it once it’s fractured.

This isn’t just my story, of course. Trust breaks in families, in teams, and across entire organisations. The question is universal: When trust is broken, can it be rebuilt, or is leaving the only solution?

Trust: A Simple Formula, Complex in Practice

I am drawn to a simple formula, articulated by Charles H. Green and Robert M. Galford: trustworthiness plus trusting equals trust. To be trustworthy is to show credibility, to keep confidences, to be reliable, and to act with others’ interests in mind. To trust, meanwhile, is an act of risk, a willingness to believe that people will show up as their best selves.

But the world is rarely tidy. When trustworthiness slips, so does the willingness to trust. Teams become wary, communication grows transactional, and protection of self-reputation, status, identity - takes priority over honest connection.

What Happens When None of That Happens?

What do we do when a team or community loses its trustworthiness and, as a result, nobody trusts anyone? Some would argue that a return to trust is almost impossible. Once the contract is broken, the wound lingers.

But research suggests something more nuanced. Trust is not a static commodity. It is, in fact, a living system, subject to both injury and healing. Organisations, much like people, can move from distrust to trust, but it requires more than a new policy, a well-intentioned workshop or even a promise to do better.

The Ingredients of Rebuilding

1. Name the breach.
It’s tempting to brush past the difficult moments, to move on quickly. But avoidance creates a vacuum, and in that silence, assumptions multiply. Rebuilding starts by naming the rupture and your part in it. This takes courage, and it almost always feels uncomfortable.

2. Create space for story.
As I’ve seen time and again, the stories we tell, especially about failure, are more powerful than those of easy success. Allow people to share what happened, how it felt, and why it matters. This storytelling is not about reliving pain but about creating shared understanding. The most robust cultures, after all, are those that allow for mistakes and seek meaning within them, rather than sweeping them under the rug.

3. Take genuine accountability.
Ownership is the bridge to repair. When mistakes are made, or values are not lived, someone needs to acknowledge it. This is rare, but it’s the spark for genuine healing.

4. Rebuild through small, repeated acts.
Trust doesn’t return because of a grand gesture. It comes back through small, consistent acts of reliability and openness. It’s about doing what you say you’ll do, even when nobody’s watching.

5. Shift from self-protection to advocacy for others.
When trust is low, people hunker down. The real breakthrough happens when individuals take the risk to support others, to advocate for the group, and to put shared goals ahead of personal interests. This is the hardest step, and it’s often where the process stalls.

6. Bring in a facilitator
Often when trust has diminished, seemingly beyond repair, it’s challenging for people to navigate the necessary conversations without the help of a facilitator/coach/mediator. It’s no reflection on your intelligence, emotional or intellectual, to have an outsider join the conversation, but it does allow you to partake in it, potentially in a safer, more productive fashion. You can learn more about how we help guide these conversations here.

When Is It Time to Walk Away?

The reality is that not every group, team or relationship can recover from a trust breakdown. If safety is breached, if silence prevails, if accountability is continually dodged, or if the culture rewards self-preservation over honesty, sometimes the healthiest response is to leave. Staying in an environment where trust is impossible only compounds the harm. But before choosing that path, I believe it’s worth asking: is this the future you genuinely want, or the future that feels most comfortable right now.

A Final Word

Rebuilding trust is messy, unpredictable, and often humbling. It asks us to let go of protection and risk being disappointed again. Yet, when it works, the trust that emerges is deeper and more resilient than what came before.

The question isn’t whether trust will be broken - it’s inevitable, in some form, for all of us. The real question is whether we can learn to repair, to persist, and, occasionally, to start again elsewhere when repair is no longer possible.

That, perhaps, is the most important trust of all; the trust we place in ourselves to make the right call, whatever it may be.

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